Patterns in our lives that lead to more of the same problems can be broken. A useful strategy is to Describe the Event, List Thoughts, List Feelings, List Behaviors. Somewhere in those lists are the reasons that the harmful pattern repeats itself.
Many women enable the systematic radicalization of today's white conservative men. Who are these women?
Women must be the protectors and teachers and leaders of all that is good, fair, kind, and true.
Women rarely must say to each other, "I'm speaking". Even if their talk overlaps, women are better listeners than men. But women are losing this skill, this art. Why is that?